Better Relationships Start With Understanding What Keeps Repeating
You may want closeness and still feel anxious, guarded, overly responsible, or ready to leave when a relationship begins to matter.
Relationships, Dating and Attachment in San Antonio and Online Across Texas
What May Be Happening
Relationships, Dating & Attachment
Relationship patterns often feel personal, but they did not appear out of nowhere. The way you respond to distance, conflict, affection, uncertainty, and rejection was shaped by what your nervous system learned about closeness and safety.
Whether you are dating, partnered, taking a break from relationships, or rebuilding after a painful one, therapy can help you understand what gets activated and practice a different response. The goal is not to need less. It is to stay connected to yourself while building connection with someone else.
You do not have to keep thinking through every possible problem by yourself.
A free 15-minute consultation gives us a chance to talk about what has been weighing on you and whether my approach feels like the right fit.
Your journey begins with a single conversation.
Schedule now and take the first step.
Office Hours
Monday – Thursday 10:00 am– 7:00 pm
Limited Friday and Evening Appointments
Please be advised that Resilient Hearts Counseling and Consulting is not a crisis service, if you’re in crisis and need immediate assistance please call 911 or the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988.
Resilient Hearts Counseling and Consulting
Offering In person and Telehealth services to Texas Residents
RHCC is a safe and affirming space for everyone!
Marcella Hayes, LPC-S
marcella@resilientheartscc.com
8918 Tesoro Drive, Suite 203
San Antonio, TX 78217
210-549-8475
Marcella Hayes, MA, LPC-S
Resilient Hearts Counseling and Consulting
Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor • EMDR-Trained Clinician • Certified Trauma Therapist (TF-CBT) • M.A. in Counseling, University of Texas at San Antonio
Over 13 years of experience in trauma treatment, community mental health, and clinical supervision. I work with adults healing from toxic relationships, anxiety, burnout, grief, and unresolved trauma — combining EMDR, IFS (parts work), CBT, and somatic nervous system regulation with lived experience. In-person therapy in San Antonio, Texas, and virtual therapy across Texas.
Please be advised that Resilient Hearts Counseling and Consulting is not a crisis service. If you’re in crisis and need immediate assistance, please call 911 or the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988.
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